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"Fear is the chronic sickness caused by abuse." - Meredith Miller; The Journey: A Roadmap for Self-healing After Narcissistic Abuse (pg. 173)...
"Jackson MacKenzie so lovingly and transparently delves deeply into the trauma and sorrow that can stand in between us and our real selves. This...
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As one of the Cluster-B disorders, Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is often mentioned alongside sociopathy and narcissism. While some of the...
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I'm reading an interesting book called The Way of the Human (Volume II) by Stephen Wolinsky, PhD. He describes how narcissistic wounds occur when...
I've been reading the book Returning to Oneness, by Leslie Temple-Thurston and Brad Laughlin. It's a short read and I highly recommend it. It...
I shared this article a while back and a lot of people resonated with it: Understanding Your Core Pain and False Self We first experience our core...
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I get this question all the time, and my answer is always the same: don't try to win. As soon as we engage in this win / lose mentality, we...
After a relationship with a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath, everything is chaotic. But once the dust settles, you're likely to find a bunch...
When we are separated from love in a traumatic or extremely abrupt way (cheating, abandonment, replacement), we often internalize a message that...
This is from a new book I'm working on. To be notified when its released, please scroll to the bottom and find the email signup. Part 1: The...
The experience that I write about here on PF was also my first experience with romantic love. This gave me a bit of a warped understanding of love...
After psychological abuse, many survivors feel broken, like they will never return back to the person they were before. Joy and love seems to have...
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Fear, Obligation, and Guilt (FOG) are the triad of emotional abuse. These three feelings can cause an overwhelming amount of self-doubt, anxiety,...