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Programme about abusive narcissist who committed murder

Discussion in 'Relationship Abuse Recovery' started by sunflower888, Oct 31, 2013.

  1. sunflower888

    sunflower888 Inactive

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    For those of you in the UK, this programme aired this evening on channel5.
    http://www.channel5.com/shows/countdown-to-murder/episodes/stalked-to-death

    It's chilling, the guy (Jonathan Vass) was abusive to his girlfriend nurse Jane Clough who he eventually killed. They describe him as narc, and it's chilling to hear lots of signs we have spoken about on these forums.

    He ended up stabbing her to death multiple times, and when caught showed no remorse! They describe how he treats her like an object, lacking respect of women, and with a sense of entitlement, etc.

    They describe how he lied and was actually married with two kids, and despite this he got her pregnant and was living with her. She had no idea he was married or with any kids, then he told her and said he was divorcing the other, but that wasn't true.

    He'd raped her several times. He got her pregnant, she was in love with him, and wanted the baby, and she thought he would alter his behaviour now a child was on the way.

    However they explained how the abuse can escalate during a pregnancy, and for this girl it did. He wanted sex from her when he wanted it, he wasn't interested that she didn't, so he took it, and raped her again. And then after the baby was born, he again raped her, and with the child in the room.

    There were a lot of the signs, we have referred to in these forums.
     
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    Outoftheashes Psychopath Free Donor

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    Yep...sounds like the types of abuse we've all suffered and are recovering from....disgusting ....thanks for sharing!
     
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    This documentary was frightening. P has not been violent with me but everything else in this documentrry is so real for me. I can not believe how similar P's are. It is very creepy. I feel so sorry for the family. I think it is good to watch this documnentry....
     
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    Sophie Elliott Story

    The murder of Sophie Elliott was a chilling reminder of what a narcissist can do. All girls need to learn to recognise these signs - this is a great page set up by her mother. Send your daughters here when they start dating - learn the signs for yourselves.
    http://www.sophieelliottfoundation.co.nz/Sophies_Story.php
     
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    iamfree Psychopath Free Donor

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    I am convinced that many of these N/S/P's are capable of murder.

    I've read that most are just too lazy to commit it and figure out how to dispose of the body.

    I think all of us have been lucky. You know, I've seen programs on serial killers and it's really interesting how the wife or gf didn't know. These people love to keep us in the dark. Just like their insides.
     
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    I can't watch the programme, it won't play
     
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