My psychopath was the worst lover i have ever had , not at the beginning (although his premature ejaculation issue was always there like a bad smell on the landing ) We would spend days in bed in the honeymoon period with him making sure i bonded to him like super glue but as the D&D set in we would still have sex all the time but it was quick , a sort of him masterbating using my body . After i went NCEA i tried to find anything on the internet that was a connection to personality disorders and premature ejaculation and the only thing i could find was this from a paper called "borderline males i have known "
"Chronic premature ejaculation is a passive-aggressive issue that's a facet of male impotency. Casanova's quick orgasmic release serves only him of course, and the woman's needs be damned. To be clear; this is a male's withholding on the most intimate level of human contact there is, and it's latent rage"
He told me the reason for his problem was because i was so hot in bed ... Doh !
Also my psychopath refused to wear a condom , heres the conversation i had with him .
Me "why dont you wear a condom , i dont want to get pregnant"
Psychopath "dont worry i can control my sperm "
Me "so you are going to use the withdrawal method ?"
Psychopath " no , i can control my sperm so as to not fertilize you "
Me "you think you can tell your sperm what to do inside me ?"
Psychopath " Yes"
What a nut job !