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    Nowhere to turn - not even sure you'll print this as I'm 'silenced'

    Brokenopen as I was reading your post I kept thinking how it could've been written by me. It's frightening how similar the NPS are.
    I totally

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    I love Squire Squirty Aubergine! I had to look it up though on Google.

    a man of high social standing who

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    What do they gain

    I don't know if I'm correct, but I think of it as emotional rape. Like sexual/physical rape, it's about power and control, and the experience of domination

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    Just so I can prepare myself

    Do N/S /P's ever just go away quietly and bother someone else, or do they always try to involve you in their games?
    Block in every way, if you are

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    should i explain myself?

    Focus on getting healthy, NC and block the idiot. "he has continued to do many bad things" Report the asshole for harassment if he continue.

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    I've got a lovely couple who just landed from Kansas City. Oh boy, do I think of you guys over the pond? Makes me wonder the people I meet, may know

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    I am fully awake now and have set some good boundaries. One thing I am noticing is how much more aware I am of other people's less than delightful behaviors.

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    I need to snap out of this

    Thank you for your kind words. I'm reading the book from this website and I am relating to almost all of it so far. I can't believe I missed the signs.

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    List of what they lack in emotional landscape..

    What confuses me still is that my x had one thing in buckets - a very good sense of humour, and while he riffed off the quirks of others, it wasn't characterised

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