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    Help! I think I got hoovered?!? Wth??

    using our empathy to hoover...ugggghhhhh...mine was a marine and after one of his 'disappearances' for a week (I had told him if he ever went silent

    SPhilly 2 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Cheating/womanizing

    my ex fired up the sex stuff in the beginning... then withheld every form of physical contact... it was the most painful form of emotional torture because

    nomorecrazytown 2 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Please help... I'm new, still living with N, and so confused!

    Thank you all so much... I changed my avatar. I hadnt thought about that :/ I am holding strong... I didn't reply to her e mail... she sent another saying

    tryingtoletgo 13 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Help! I think I got hoovered?!? Wth??

    Pinkplatypus is totally right. Best hoovering involves activating victim's empathy or curiosity. You can be sorry for his mom without being there or being

    Liliel 14 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Cheating/womanizing

    That's why they love creepy online hook up sites. They can let their twisted imaginations run riot and advertise for the most depraved and twisted shit.

    Charlie Baltimore 16 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    The official psychopath translator

    Here's a few of the ones I heard ...
    "I have feelings too ya know" = I have no feelings but I gotta say this to appear human.
    "I

    SweetNeil 21 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Help! I think I got hoovered?!? Wth??

    [MENTION=5848]stormmaker[/MENTION] Yes he is hoovering and he is using his brother and racking up major pitty points from his poor dying mother - he wants

    pinkplatypus 25 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    My Youthfulness is Returning :)

    While with the ex P I developed Graves disease (a thyroid disorder which can be brought on by stress). I know the emotional stress and physical distress,especially

    iwouldratherwalk 26 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    Cheating/womanizing

    [MENTION=259]feelsgoodtobefree[/MENTION] - i couldnt agree with this more. totally spot on. my ex spath to a T

    nomorecrazytown 27 Minutes Ago Go to last post

    He's not coming back



    So glad I am able to laugh a little about this with you all on here. It really does help! I see that so many of you have gone to see

    alimonyjack 27 Minutes Ago Go to last post